Yes — and for a revocable living trust, you almost certainly should be. Here's how serving as your own trustee works and what changes when you can no longer serve.
Book a Free 1-on-1 ReviewYes — in a revocable living trust, you are almost always your own trustee during your lifetime. This is one of the key advantages of a revocable trust: you retain complete control over all trust assets exactly as you managed them before. Nothing about your daily financial life changes. You only step down as trustee if you become incapacitated or die — at which point your named successor trustee takes over.
When you create a revocable living trust, you typically wear all three roles simultaneously:
As trustee of your own trust, you have the same authority over trust assets that you previously had over personally titled assets:
From a practical standpoint, being your own trustee means nothing changes. You sign the same checks, manage the same accounts, and live in the same home. The only difference is who legally holds title — and that difference is what protects your family from probate.
Married couples typically serve as co-trustees of a joint revocable living trust. Both spouses serve as trustees simultaneously, with equal authority over trust assets:
A joint trust with both spouses as co-trustees provides seamless continuity when one spouse dies. The surviving spouse continues managing the trust exactly as before — no court appointment, no delay, no gap in authority over jointly owned assets.
You stop serving as trustee in two circumstances — incapacity and death. Your trust document should address both clearly:
If you become unable to manage your affairs — due to illness, injury, cognitive decline, or a doctor's certification of incapacity — your successor trustee assumes authority immediately. No court appointment needed. The trust document defines what constitutes incapacity and how it's documented, typically requiring a physician's written certification.
At your death, the trust becomes irrevocable and your successor trustee assumes full authority to administer and distribute the estate per your written instructions. They act immediately — no waiting for probate court to appoint anyone.
If you recover from an incapacity that temporarily displaced you as trustee, most trust documents allow you to resume your role as trustee once you are again able to manage your own affairs — typically upon physician certification of restored capacity.
Some people wonder whether naming themselves as trustee creates complications. It doesn't — and here's why serving as your own trustee is the right structure for virtually every revocable living trust:
While serving as your own trustee is standard for revocable trusts, there are situations where naming a professional trustee — or a professional successor trustee — is worth considering:
Professional trustees are worth considering for successor trustee roles — especially for complex situations or when family conflict is likely. Most families use a trusted family member as primary successor and a professional institution as backup. You don't need a professional trustee while you're alive and capable.
When William created his revocable living trust at 71, he was initially concerned about "giving up control" of his assets. His advisor explained that as his own trustee, he would have identical authority over trust assets as he currently had over personally titled ones.
William remained trustee for six years — buying a new car, selling an investment property, and managing all his accounts exactly as before. Nothing changed operationally.
At 77, William was diagnosed with early-stage dementia. His daughter Laura — named as successor trustee — presented the trust document and his physician's incapacity certification to the bank. She assumed trustee authority the same day, without a single court filing.
She managed William's finances for two years while he received care, then administered the estate after his death — also without probate.
"I kept his finances completely private and handled everything exactly the way he wanted," Laura said. "And I never had to ask a judge for permission to do any of it."
Serving as your own trustee is the right structure for virtually every revocable living trust — you keep complete control, nothing changes about how you manage your assets, and the trust does its job seamlessly in the background.
At YWait, we make sure every trust we build has a clear trustee succession structure — primary, backup, and criteria for transition — so the plan works the way it's supposed to when it matters most.

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